TNDriver has a point.
I, for one, don't want to be "spoiled and pampered"- - that would smother me in a heartbeat!I'm a woman- - not a china doll!! LOL
On the other hand, there are women out there that would welcome that kind of attention and in the process disregard other things that might NOT be right with the relationship like- - the abscense of ...... chemistry,communication,honesty or even monogomy.
So, to each their own! If that "line" seems to be working for you- - -don't fix what ain't broke right?? LOL();-)